My First Threesome

Letter to My First Threesome I am a woman how to I bring up the idea of having a threesome to my husband

May 15, 2008 | Couples, Letters / Threesome questions, Threesome Questions, Uncategorized, Understanding your partner

Dear My First Threesome,

Recently I have discovered that I would like to trying to have a threesome. My husband well you could say he are somewhat conservative in his views. I would like to bring up the idea to him but I’m to afraid he’ll think I don’t love him. Any ideas would be appreciated.

Kindest Regards,

Confused & Scared

Dear Confused and Scared,

It is not easy to bring up an idea like having a threesome if you have not discussed it at least as a fantasy. In my opinion the best way to approach the idea is to slowly introduce him to it and monitor his reaction to the suggestion. Maybe try sharing a fantasy of having a threesome or role play the idea to see how he reacts. If he reacts negatively to it then talking to him openly about it maybe an issue and in that case it maybe better to let the idea rest for six months to a year. However if he seems to react positively to it then it may be worth your time to start moving the idea from a fantasy discussion to what if it did happen discussion. Again watch his reaction and determine if the idea needs to put on hold before it is explored further. In the event he seems open to the idea then try progressing it a bit further by talking about boundaries, type of person and what ifs.

As you go through this journey with him you may discover new things about him or may discover the idea is not as appealing as it used to be to you. In any case take it slow, plan your next step, and progress as fast as the person who is least comfortable with the idea thereby insuring that you are not moving too fast.

Wish you the best and hope this helps you.

Warmest Regards,

Warmest Regards,

Author: My First Threesome ™

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